Dating a guy just out of a relationship
I’ve had a “casual” thing going with a guy for 6 months, mostly sexual.
Two months ago, I told him I couldn’t do the casual thing anymore and since then things have been heading downhill fast.
Mainstream culture doesn’t reflect the reality of so many of our lives, but everything is compared to its norms. One of the ways we can de-normalize heterosexuality is to stop assuming that everyone is straight unless they tell us otherwise.
I can’t even begin to count how many times I’ve talked about my girlfriend and someone has assumed I must just be referring to a friend who’s a “girl.” The more we can de-centralize compulsory heterosexuality, the less we’ll perpetuate the cultural systems that make the question at hand is a valid thing to inquire about.
It's the other end of the spectrum that you have to worry about.... -- T Dear T: I don’t think there is anything wrong with a making list, though I do have a few basic guidelines. Read more In an ideal world, people would naturally get along and no one would care too much about appearance or fitting in.When it’s unhealthy—or just not the right match—it can literally...Read more They say you never know a good thing till it's gone.Today was my birthday and he didn’t even wish me a happy birthday!I don’t want this anymore but I’m getting mixed advice from people.